I knocked on her door and said, "hello, can you stop the car forward?" This is blocking my car. I'll go out in a minute. "
"What's your way?"
I mean my car.
"I'll stop here. Do whatever you want. "
She said when she got off the bus. Good temperament, wearing famous brands, is a poker face.
Forget it, people who have this kind of mood should waste less breath. Later, I asked a few people from another direction and moved a lot of things before driving out.
Whether a woman's life is good or not depends mainly on her own feelings, and other people's judgments are nonsense.
From an outsider's point of view, there will be many standards. For example, the blind touch the elephant, everyone is right, but it is not comprehensive.
temperament
Temperament is a good business card for a woman, and good temperament is related to many factors. For example, the influence of family background, knowledge internalization, cognitive thinking, personal cultivation and so on.
This is only one aspect of evaluating a woman's life. She has a good temperament and may be lucky in some of the above aspects.
get dressed
There is a good saying: a woman will never have a dress in her wardrobe! It can be seen that women need and like clothes.
The quality of clothes benefits from the wealth of money. For a woman who tends to dress well and feel satisfied, these may make her feel that life is beautiful.
Conversation style
Being able to talk is the inherent nature that women are willing to show. Some people show it naturally, while others show it deliberately. This can also achieve various communicative purposes through deliberate practice. So sometimes it is difficult for you to judge whether a woman's life is good or not by talking.
These points are observed from the perspective of outsiders.
For example, the woman who blocked my car, is she doing well? My judgment is that her life is not very good, at least not very happy. Because she lacks "verve"
Which is the spirit.
She has a good temperament and beautiful clothes, and she can talk well when necessary, but she lacks something.
From her conversation with me, I felt her anxiety and anxiety.
When a woman lives well, she will be very calm and calm, and the peace that emanates from her bones cannot be concealed.
No matter whether she is rich or poor in life, careless or careless in temperament, elegant or vulgar in speech, people will feel that she is her, she can truly express herself, live freely and truly, and do not please anyone.
She may not care much about temperament, dress and talk, but she has the ability to make herself comfortable and others comfortable.
Shakespeare famously said, "There will be a thousand Hamlets in the eyes of a thousand readers." In other words, everyone with different positions can see a completely different artistic conception in Hamlets-this book.
To evaluate a woman's life is good or not, everyone has his own opinion. The above is just my personal opinion.
But let's not ignore that women themselves have the most say in life.
In life, many women are glamorous in appearance, but their real life is not satisfactory; On the contrary, although some women are simple and simple, they live an enviable happy life.
Therefore, it is not obvious whether a woman has a good life. So, what kind of woman really has a good life? Look at these three places and you will know!
See if she's free.
Time is the most precious wealth of mankind and the fairest gift from God to everyone.
Most of our lives are busy with survival. When you come home from a hard day's work, it is very happy to have a time of your own.
This is also one of the most powerful evidences of a woman's beautiful life.
All happy women have their own free time.
Going home every night, they can put aside their fatigue and find their true self.
Don't cook to see the mood, there are not many clothes waiting to be washed by yourself;
When you miss a person, you will be interested in taking care of your children when you are chasing dramas at home.
When I am alone, I don't want to chat with my family or go shopping and watch movies with my friends.
Their life may not be rich or expensive, but they can make themselves comfortable.
A bad woman will never finish her work.
During the day, I worked hard all day and stayed at home at night.
The whole family is waiting for him to cook by himself.
Take off your clothes at home and wait to do your own laundry.
No one will care about the health of his family without cleaning himself.
The child cries, nobody cares, and the husband just plays with his mobile phone.
They always play a "hard" role in their lives. They must worry about their own inside and outside.
What they left behind was an old face and a worse temper.
Look at the topic of her conversation with others.
She can also see her life from a person's chat with others.
They often have a husband who loves him, so they are happy to praise him in front of others. You may think she is showing love, but what you see in their faces is real pride and happiness.
Those unhappy women are completely different.
They are usually exhausted by livelihood and trivial matters, so life makes them irritable.
When I meet an acquaintance, my bitter heart seems to have found a breakthrough and is immediately generated.
They can state her husband's "crime" in detail in front of the chat object; Their children always don't save their own hearts, and others' children always envy them; The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an abyss that they can't escape.
Life has no fun and expectation for them. They hate their lives and feel depressed about what they do every day, but they have no choice.
Their bellies are full of discontent. They chat with others and end up dissatisfied with life and complaining about all kinds of fantasies.
Look at the content of her circle of friends
Finally, there is another place to see a person's life, and that is her circle of friends.
Through the circle of friends, you can see what she is doing, what she sees, what she is thinking and how she feels.
If a woman's circle of friends often shows her latest books or movies, where to travel, what new friends come, what expectations and longings she has for life … her life is full of enrichment, happiness and positivity.
On the contrary, if a woman's circle of friends sees this all day, her life is mostly unhappy.
For a long time, people have raised some questions about her husband's infidelity, how to prevent it and how to face domestic violence.
Sigh that my life is motionless, complain that I married the wrong person, and swear never to be a woman again in my next life;
Often transmit social news full of violence, and even make some destructive remarks.
The content of your circle of friends may be recognized or criticized by you, but they have one thing in common, that is, you care more.
A woman had a good time. Unable to install. There are too many small details in life, and it is easy to expose a person's real life.
When you know what kind of woman is good, you can compare yourself and see if your life is satisfactory.
No matter how many times a woman runs, she must have these five habits. Don't stay up late, go to bed early.
Life can't be repeated, you don't know how to take care of your body, and you only hurt yourself.
All the nights you spend today are overdrafts for the future.
You can make more money when you have no money and make a comeback when you are frustrated in the workplace, but if you collapse, everything is just empty talk.
The second half of life is about health. From now on, changing yourself, getting into the habit of going to bed early, going to bed early and getting up early are the best ways for women to keep fit.
Don't be too lazy and exercise more.
Women, no matter what age, must understand that what they want must be carved by themselves; If you want to stay young, you must invest and protect yourself.
Keeping regular exercise habits can not only make you healthy and energetic, but also improve your posture and temperament.
No matter how busy you are at work, please don't seize the exercise time.
Choose a sport you like and stick to it. I believe every drop of sweat you shed is a healthy accumulation.
Don't think too much, just relax.
Thinking too much will complicate a simple problem and even create a problem that doesn't exist at all, thus getting yourself into endless trouble.
Always thinking too many meaningless questions will lead to irritability and inability to concentrate on things;
Always worrying about people and things in the past, you can't better grasp the present and move on easily.
Only by relaxing and letting go of those troubles can we really get rid of the spirit and go into battle lightly.
Let your heart calm down and don't be obsessed with fighting with yourself.
If you have an open mind and relax everything, you will have less sadness and anxiety in life.
Don't overdraw, save some money.
Deposit marks a person's ability to resist risks and also means a person's self-confidence.
There is no eternal backer in the world, and no one will always be a safe haven for anyone. Only having money in your pocket can make you calm when you are in trouble.
After all, if you have money, you won't wait until your parents are ill to borrow money humbly;
You won't meet something you really like, you can only see it and you can't buy it;
I won't watch other people's children receive higher education, but my own children can't have anything.
Money is a man's courage, and it is also the life of a man without money.
Learning to save money and holding a sense of security tightly in your own hands is more important than anything else.
Don't be angry, be calm.
In this life, it is inevitable that there will be bad emotions.
However, many times, after getting angry, many problems have not been solved, but will continue to intensify, resulting in an out-of-control situation.
When you gradually calm down, you will find it useless to be angry. It will not only disturb our mood, worsen our interpersonal relationship, but also destroy our physical and mental health.
Maybe we can't control the generation of bad emotions, but we can learn to face everything with a peaceful mind.
Instead of punishing yourself with others' mistakes, it is better to let go of others' mistakes and laugh them off.
When arguing, learn to be patient; When you are angry, learn to be calm; When you are persistent, learn to give up; When you care, learn to let go.
Be kind to yourself and never get angry.
Learn not to be angry and win a lifetime.
A woman's state is never measured by her age, but by how wonderful her life is, how rich her heart is and how rich her spirit is.
Therefore, if a woman wants to be in a good state, she must form the above habits, so as to give herself a comfortable and happy life.
Author: Uncle Bei
A woman is like a beautiful flower, dotted with our boring life. A woman who lives well is like a gorgeous flower, which makes our life in Ran Ran shine. Women in good condition have the following characteristics:
1. The first is the state of the skin, whether the skin is firm and shiny. A woman's skin condition is good, which shows that she usually pays more attention to maintenance and quality of life. On the other hand, it also shows that her sleep quality is good, and there is nothing to worry about that will cause her insomnia. Good sleep quality will make the skin look white and shiny.
2. Pay more attention to personal appearance. Dress more tastefully and know what style clothes you are suitable for. Clothes are neat and decent, even without makeup, and plain looks better.
3. Look at the overall mental outlook. Optimistic and open-minded, not haggle over every ounce, with a smile on his face. Words and deeds are elegant and decent, and there is affinity in every smile. A woman who has a good life must be calm and will not get angry easily.
4. It is not only pleasing to the eye externally, but also pays more attention to improving oneself from the connotation. I have my own hobbies, like reading books and traveling for health. I live a full life, like to be alone occasionally, have the ability of introspection and unique opinions, and can't follow others' advice.
A woman with high emotional intelligence can adjust her state even in adversity, be confident and calm, and infect everyone around her with a full mental outlook. If you have such people around you, you must cherish them!
Look at the eyes. Look at the eyes.
Other aspects of a woman may be casual or covered up, such as not dressing up or being soaked in heavy rain, but the feelings revealed by eyes are always the most accurate. Even if she doesn't dress up, there won't be frightened, anxious, disappointed and bored eyes in her eyes. It may be laziness after getting up or relaxation after finishing housework, but her eyes must be shiny, calm, confident and satisfied, without worry and panic. Even if she has just been caught in the rain, there will be no anger, rage, meanness and bitterness in her eyes. She may be cunning curiosity or helpless self-mockery, but there is no anger or hostile hatred, because she doesn't need to regard this rain as injustice or hostility from God. Just a rain, an episode of life.
People's personalities are different, some are lively and outgoing, some are quiet and introverted, but the eyes of happy women are all the same shining, giving people the feeling of radiant, warm and bright, often with a smile. If a woman is frustrated in life, her eyes are either dull, dull, dull, helpless, empty, disappointed and sad, sharp and mean, revealing the cunning of competing with others everywhere.
Whether a woman is doing well or not, I personally think it can be seen from the following points:
The first is to look at the hands. In life, people must work and create with their hands. If a woman's hands are delicate, she must be a person who seldom works, seldom does housework and pays great attention to maintenance. If your hands are rough and you don't have the heart to maintain them, then you must have a heavy housework and be worried. You can tell a thing or two by looking at a woman's hands.
The second is to look at the color. A good-looking, harmonious and luxurious woman can reveal her life with one look and one gesture. A woman who knows books and has seen the world must be indifferent, neither supercilious nor supercilious, and can show everyone's demeanor.
The fourth is to look at knowledge. People often say: there are poetry books in the belly. A woman, who loves learning and reading, must be full of energy and elegant temperament. Such a woman knows life better, cherishes life more, enjoys the fun of life more, and is bound to live a comfortable and happy life.
In short, everyone's attitude towards life will be different, and so will women. We are in an era of equality between men and women, and women who have made achievements in their careers emerge one after another. Women have become the leaders of the times, reflecting a woman's social value from her entrepreneurial struggle.
In order to describe people's beautiful life, Beijingers have a word called: Shu Xin!
A woman's life is precious in comfort! I met a lady. I used to be my distant in-laws for eight generations. That man, that temper, is like a bodhisattva!
Can't compare! People are comfortable with life. The first thing is to look good. Attention is "beauty". Let you "see and forget the customs." What a cock and a dog hear, the world disputes, people have never met. The family background is the first-class rich family among the children of Beijing compound. Someone at home already has stamps. She was loved by her elders since she was a child. Lively and happy. When I grew up, I went to the Diplomatic Academy, and my temperament was more elegant.
That kind of elegance belongs only to children with special family background. To put it bluntly, it is a kind of "stupidity" that is out of touch and at a loss!
She needs food stamps because she doesn't have them. She can't understand the importance of salary increase to ordinary human beings. I once went to a lesbian scientist. It is the general cadre family. She insisted on going, probably for the sake of "going to the grassroots." In Beijing in the 1990s, houses were crowded. When she got there, she said nothing and lowered her head. I'm surprised. My classmates all think she is arrogant. Isn't she just an ordinary person? Actually, why? You will never guess. When "Big Miss" looks up when she sees the men's underwear hanging on the balcony, she doesn't dare to look up. ...
Why ... she can't understand. Why is this? How can underwear exist in the sight of a foreigner? After listening to it, I came up with a sentence: Don't be silly, their house is just a small balcony with no place!
The eldest lady is comfortable all her life. My husband is a "Phoenix Man" and has a thousand choices. Senior diplomat. She lives with her husband, thrifty, amiable and respectful. I also took care of my mother-in-law from a small town. There is no shelf at all. In fact, I found that people who really look down on others are actually people who are looked down upon by others. And "big miss" pays attention to "hiding" in this life. I have been the focus of attention all my life. She really wants to blend in with the masses!
Now, "Big Miss" has retired. Have grandchildren. Fat aunt. There are no wrinkles on his face. Elegant and simple dress for a lifetime. No high heels. It is the kind of Beijing aunt who is comfortable at first sight and has exquisite taste. What kind of body management, the real grandmother is too lazy to pay attention? Almost. The best man is by her side and loves her for life. Who else did she attract? Friends circle? Not at all. She has been "hidden" all her life!
She has a kind heart. When I was seriously ill, she helped me find a doctor and medicine. We are not related by blood now. When I returned to Beijing, she contacted me. "I haven't seen you for many years. How is your brother? "
I'm here to join in the fun, especially pulling my brother to open my eyes. Let you see what a real "lady" is. The younger brother saw it and said, "She has no comment. She is not the kind of woman who lets men judge after a meal. "
"What do you think of her temperament?" I asked my brother. This "playboy", this man who has found many girlfriends.
The younger brother thought about it and said a word: harmony!
And, God bless the woman!
To see if a woman is doing well, we should consider it from many aspects.
① Wear
I have to say that a person's clothes can also reflect whether a person is living well or not. After all, this society can't move without money. A well-dressed person does not have to worry about the most basic living expenses.
2 talk.
Speech reflects a person's accomplishment. A person who is dissatisfied with life will have some shadows in his voice. Only by living well can he bring all the happiness to others. Although smiling is the basic etiquette, a person who lives in hot water will be a little sad even if he smiles.
③ temperament
A person's temperament is formed over time. If a person is sad and disappointed for a long time, his temperament will not be happy.
Linlin is my college classmate. She is an employee of the marketing department of a securities company. One weekend morning, her client asked her to open an account. Linlin didn't speak while walking, but a passing aunt stopped her and said, Your smile is melting me. How can you be so happy?
Linlin can infect passers-by, formally because she has been in a happy atmosphere, so her temperament is also happy.
Whether a person lives well or not can be reflected in his dress, speech and temperament.
Everyone has a love of beauty, and when living conditions are good, they all value their external image. If a person is in a sub-emotional state for a long time and is too lazy to take care of herself for a long time, you can see whether her life is good or not from the first sight. Let's not talk about beauty, but also dress appropriately, as usual. If you don't trim your hair for a while, it means there is something wrong with your sitting posture and living conditions. This is only a preliminary judgment, not all right. Whether a woman's living environment is good or not depends on many aspects.
Because of human nature, people laugh when they are happy and feel sad when they are sad. Mental outlook can reflect a person's life state. Women in happy and sad states show two completely different attitudes. Unlike men, women are more emotional and don't hide anything, while men generally bury their sad things in their hearts and don't like to show them. If you judge a woman's life from her appearance and state, this reason is not sufficient. Only in-depth understanding can we fully understand how a woman lives!
Communicating with a woman in language is the most direct proof of understanding her living conditions. Although I didn't directly ask "How is your life?" You can find some clues from language, tone and manner. Although she is hiding something, it is not difficult for a man with rich life experience to guess what a woman's life is like from the overall appearance.
A woman, including a man, should treat the gains and losses of fame and wealth and material desires in life with a normal heart. Nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory. As long as you work hard and leave other things to God, you will be lucky and won't be sad. This is the so-called golden mean!
I hope my answer can help you. If there are any mistakes, please correct them in the comments section. Let's discuss the secrets of life together and build a happy life. @ jingjingjingjingjing 16 1 Always be a little light in the dark!
What is a woman's life like? Some people say look at temperament, some people say look at clothes, and some people say look at speech. I think we should look at the men around her.
Temperament is sometimes innate. I have seen a woman who looks like an ordinary person. Her eyes, nose and mouth are not so prominent, and her figure is neither fat nor thin, but she exudes a special temperament, which is different from others.
She always gives a faint feeling when she speaks, as if nothing can arouse her desire. It is really appropriate to describe her with a blue temperament, that is, the clean and pure temperament.
Ordinary clothes have a unique charm on her, but I learned from others that my father was sentenced to death for rape since childhood, and my mother never married again.
I have been living in an old house because I have no conditions to move. She has lived under the guidance of others since she was a child. It is not so much her outstanding temperament as her little inferiority complex. Now in her fifties, I have never seen her walk with a man. Maybe she will die alone in this life, so a good temperament doesn't mean a good life.
Let's talk about it. Xiao Xia, who plays mahjong downstairs, is recognized as well dressed. She often shows off how much her watch costs and how much her clothes cost. We have never heard of the brand she said, except that she wears gold and silver, glittering, and wears eight rings on ten fingers at the peak.
According to her, every boyfriend will buy her a piece of gold jewelry, and there are countless clothes and shoes. When she is in a good mood, she is dressed up beautifully, with heavy makeup on her face and perfume on her body, sitting at the mahjong table and smiling proudly. When she won the money, she went out to eat.
If one day you see her with long hair and household clothes, it must be that she is in a bad mood today. Maybe a boyfriend made her angry again. She lives here alone. Neighbors often say that her men change too often, and some of her jokes make her envious, so you can't judge a person's life by wearing clothes.
There is a sister doing morning exercises by the river. Everything she said came from Zou, even a few words occasionally. I heard that she used to be a teacher in a middle school, but her dress is really pleasing. Often the clothes are covered with oil stains, and she comes out. Everyone who knows her says you can't go to her house. There is no space for her to waste, and her mind is spent on sports and reading.
My point is that a woman's life depends on the man around her, my mother's old neighbor. I call her Aunt Guan. A few years ago, her eyes became smaller for no reason, and her husband led her to seek medical treatment in many ways, but she was still blind.
Their only son lives in Zhengzhou and is married and has children. Aunt Guan is taken good care of by Uncle Guan every day. She wore sunglasses, dressed neatly and went out for a walk arm in arm. People who don't know can't see anything wrong with Aunt Guan's eyes at all, because she often goes out with Uncle Guan, and she is at ease and at a brisk pace. She can't see that she is blind at all.
It's been five or six years since I went to my mother's house. Every time I see Uncle Guan, I can see that his house is clean and tidy. Uncle Guan also goes there every day. He doesn't take care of his wife as an annoyance, but enjoys it. He talked to me when he saw me. Hearing this, Aunt Guan stood fumbling at the door and said that you had come to see your father again?
At this time, I am very envious, envious that Aunt Guan can't see her eyes and can't do housework, but her husband not only doesn't complain, but also takes care of her every day. It is said that the two have had a good relationship since childhood, and they have never been red in their lives.
Do you agree with me?