A friend of mine, who works from nine to five every day, has weekends every week, has no provident fund, only 300 yuan of social security every month, and his salary is almost 5 thousand. After paying off the mortgage and paying the basic living expenses every month, there is not much left every month. But in spite of this, I still live a leisurely life. Nine to five, I can sleep for nine hours a day, and I either chase plays or sleep on weekends.
I don't want to study, saying that she can't read books, so I don't want to take any exams; If you want to start a sideline business, you can also do purchasing, but you feel idle and troublesome, so you can live day by day. And I sometimes think that if I live like this, I might feel very idle. I'm worried about her. She is not anxious herself. Why should I mention her anxiety?
Compared with my friend, my other classmate can earn almost 2w a month. After deducting five insurances and one gold 1w, he still has 1w in his hand, and he will save almost 5k a month. Even so, I still keep accounts, read books, keep fit and manage money every day. At the same time, I also took a lot of practice certificates and took an MBA. Her goal is to become a rich woman with financial freedom as soon as possible, so although her income is several times that of my friend, she is still very self-disciplined and motivated every day.
In this contrast, can I say that my friend is not motivated? No, because my friend is satisfied with her present life, and so is she. Can I say that my classmates are not excellent? No, she should be quite excellent, but she lives a very anxious life. Is she not satisfied? There should be. Oh, no, she is quite good for a child of her age and family conditions.
We all say that we should choose a self-motivated person as our friend. However, after the choice! Should we make progress together or continue to live a contented and stable life?
Everyone has his own life. I hope we don't waste time. Just come to this world, or choose a lively life.
Come on, 0 ~