How do girls get out these days? Most boys will think about how to ask girls out, especially after getting to know them better, but it is difficult to ask girls out now. Here's how to ask a girl out now.

How do girls date 1 1 nowadays to pave the way for chatting?

If you want to meet a girl you like, you must be impatient. Generally, nine out of ten brothers who can't meet a girl will be blacked out directly, and the remaining one will only be used as a spare tire by the girl, becoming a little errand boy who can come and go whenever he wants. It is skillful to strike up a conversation with girls, who are inherently insecure about strangers. How to break this relationship is the key to success.

Smart boys will take their time, knowing not only to pave the way for chatting, but also to make a good impression on girls, so that girls can trust themselves and guide the topic of invitation when they are familiar with themselves. This long-term coexistence is what girls like.

Step 2 invite a few days in advance

Why do you need to ask a girl out a few days in advance? In fact, it is to ensure that she has time. Otherwise, suddenly invite a girl, the girl just doesn't have time, wouldn't it be embarrassing? Do you know that a woman has a needle in her heart? When she tells you that she has no time, does she really have no time? That may be an excuse to refuse you and not want to date you, so at this time, you must do your homework several times in advance and ask her when she is free at ordinary times. Don't tell her you want to ask her out first, and then explain your purpose after she replies to you. Most girls will be embarrassed to refuse you.

Be sure to pick her up on the date.

You know, nowadays girls are easy to go back on their word, so in love, if you want to meet a girl you like smoothly, you must be fully prepared. You must pick her up early on the date, so that she can't refuse you. If you wait for her at the date, she may even stand you up for a while. So, don't relax until the last quarter of an hour, when you really pick up girls.

How do girls date on 2 (1) now? The purpose is clear.

People are afraid of meeting each other, but trees are afraid of uncovering their skins.

Many times, the girl is cold and pushing around on the phone, but if you cheat her out, she will have a good time.

The purpose of the invitation is to meet. As long as we can meet, we can say anything. All the demands of girls can be compromised, such as girls saying, "I can't come back too late." "I don't like singing." "I'm not feeling well. I can't climb the mountain." How to answer these excuses, the following (7) specifically talked about it.

(2) Overcome the fear of dating.

Looking at the eight-point number in the mobile phone, she is so beautiful and rich. Can I catch up with her? Do you want to call her or not?

Otaku seems to have endless fears in his heart. I'm afraid to talk to girls and ask them out. You can watch How to Overcome Fear before chatting up.

I remember how I asked the girl I like out, picked up the phone and put it down, thinking about whether this time is appropriate, what should I say, whether the place to ask her out is appropriate, whether she will come out, and what we should do when we meet. ...

First question, do you want to contact me if you have a phone number? The answer is always "contact!" At most, the other party doesn't answer the phone or send text messages back. The loss is just a little phone bill.

When will you contact? The sooner the better! Especially in big cities. In a small town, it is possible that after a month, you will contact again. The girl still remembers the scene where you accosted that day. But in big cities, girls don't remember who you are the next day. My habit is to send text messages or call girls on the spot. Generally, I will say, "I am the cheeky Ah Yue just now, and your eyes are really good at talking." Let's go out for a cold drink another day. "

(3) the text is short.

Invitation is not chatting, and the skill of chatting with women is not rambling, without head or tail. Express the invitation simply and clearly, but in special circumstances, the invitation can be used as a means to keep in touch, and the invitation is the topic of communication. For example, if you regularly invite her out to play or eat, even if the other party refuses, you can call to harass her in this way; Every time the other party refuses, it will form a refusal debt and finally come out.

(4) reduce expectations.

As soon as he came up, he said, "Let's get a room!" No girl can promise. You said, "Let's go shopping and get something to eat!" Many girls won't refuse.

Don't make too many demands at first, use the strategy of camel entering the tent and make demands on the girl bit by bit. Although the first thing I said was to go out for dinner and chat, I had a good time chatting. Sure, I can go to the park again.

(5) stimulate interest.

Curiosity kills the cat! Girls are naturally curious.

There are two ways to invite girls to dinner.

The first way is to tell her that there is a restaurant with western-style decoration and steak pies, and the atmosphere is very romantic;

The second way is to tell her that there is a romantic restaurant. She asks you what you look like, and you will know when you go. You will never be disappointed.

Obviously, the second way is more exciting and attractive!

(6) stick to it.

Stick to the end, in other words, have a strong desire to satisfy.

For the rejection of girls, insist on at least three times!

I dated a college girl, spent a month, invited many times by text message and telephone, and finally came out.

(7) Pay attention to tone and intonation.

In fact, this is more important than all the dating topics and dating skills mentioned above. Girls come out to see you not because of what you said, but because they are attracted by your magnetic voice, infected by your enthusiasm and conquered by your strength and confidence.

If it really doesn't work, practice in front of the mirror, look at your expression and smile, record your voice and listen to it yourself.

I have a deep understanding of dating. I just said in a casual and anxious tone, "Are you free tonight?" I want to talk to you about something. Let's meet at the gate of Jin Guanghua Square! "The other party came out without much thought.

But it's still an old saying, in fact, it doesn't matter what you say, what matters is how you say it!

(8) handle objections skillfully.

Here is a dating technique called "biting the end of a conversation". This skill is very useful. After you learn it, you will also use it when you bargain in shopping.

That is, no matter how the girl objects, you will push the hand of Tai Chi on the basis of what she said, unload your strength and fight back with your strength. The specific step is to express understanding-re-demand.

For example,

You: "Come out to play at night!"

Girl: "I work overtime at night."

You: "it's so hard, your boss is so inhuman." I'm going to the industrial and commercial bureau to report him! " (show understanding, stand in the same position-unload)

You can't live working overtime all day. You have to give yourself a vacation. (Her excuse became the reason for your invitation-leverage)

I know a place to eat midnight snack, which is cheap and delicious! When do you get off work? "(request again-counterattack)

How do girls date nowadays? In the first case, you should analyze your relationship with that girl first.

If she is not very enthusiastic about you at ordinary times, don't make an appointment in a hurry. The time is not yet ripe. Repeated invitations to be rejected will make girls get used to saying no to you. Don't ask her out in the future, even if it is a smaller request, she may habitually say no.

I think you should do two things well at this stage.

Cultivate comfort

Look for sex, or create sex to increase the intersection of life, create the same topic, and make your chat interaction more topical.

Improve yourself.

When the relationship between girls and you is low, what you need to do is not to befriend frequently, but to spend more time on yourself. Interesting elements in you are more likely to attract women's curiosity and attention.

You can work hard, exercise and play ball, meet different friends, enjoy all kinds of food, and do some hobbies, such as cooking, painting, music, books, traveling and so on.

You don't need to cover everything, at least enrich your life, so that you can pick up girls later, because a person is interesting because he leads an interesting life.

The second situation is the way of invitation.

When a man asks a girl, he must first understand the living conditions of the girl.

A phone call, a WeChat, it is not easy to ask a girl out.

If a woman is willing to ask out, she must have a crush on you. At least she wants to have a look at you and doesn't want to leave a bad impression in front of you.

When a woman prepares for a date seriously, she needs to wash her hair. It takes a long time to blow your hair after washing, and sometimes you have to make a mask to keep your face in the best condition.

If it is summer, it will be even more troublesome. What sunscreen, oil control and hair removal may need to be done again.

After these are completed, there is still the most difficult hurdle. I don't know what to wear. This is something that women have to worry about every day, let alone wear clothes to go on a date.

This preparation time ranges from one hour to two or three hours.

If the date is too urgent, you may be too lazy to prepare and refuse directly.

Of course, if you want to judge whether she regards you as a male best friend or wants to have a closer relationship with you, you can also judge by the importance she attaches to dating.

Male girlfriends are willing to say anything, good, bad, ugly and black history.

Women treat men who have a good impression differently. They often want to show their best, dress up carefully and try to avoid talking about their shortcomings and black history.

To tell the truth, women's lives are very rich now and there are not many dates. It's too easy to make an appointment, so be on your guard.

Many dining tables, if you don't ask her out, she will take the initiative to ask you out, and the date place is all set by her. You think you are full of charm and have been soaked by women, but in fact you are only cheating you with your greed.

When you meet a girl who is slow and reserved, don't worry, she is not casual. Casual woman, casual to you, casual to other men, I don't think you want to plant grass on your head.