The term "old man" is a discriminatory term for men who are physically and mentally old, and has little to do with age. If a young man in his twenties is old-fashioned and conservative, he still has a feeling of being old. If he is still full of energy and advanced thinking in his forties, he is still young.

You are 2 1 and he is 35. If you are with him, you feel happy physically and mentally, and always make you refreshed, you won't feel that there is an age gap between him and you. It's just that when I see the hukou book or ID card occasionally, I will find that, oh, he seems to be a few years older than me, and then you won't pay attention.

Do you think he is old for you? Maybe it's because of other people's opinions, or you're a little retarded. If he makes you like him, you will ignore his age.