A fleshy girl in America was widely reported by the media because she married a handsome fitness instructor. She also hopes that her story can bring courage and strength to more girls!
"I am surprised that so many people pay attention to our married life, but we just live in the Midwest, just an ordinary couple who like to take the dog for a walk. 」
A man and a woman are walking on the beach by the sea. They hugged each other gently, with a happy smile on their lips and loving eyes. It may be a bit too flashy, but this normal and sweet picture was instantly captured by major social media pages after being posted on Instagram, because of this woman's "figure".
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Jenna Kutcher from Wisconsin, USA, is a 30-year-old photographer. Like most women, she struggled to lose weight, because her figure was not "typical beauty" as the general public thought, until she met Drew Kutcher, a fitness instructor nicknamed "Mr. Six-pack ABS".
"This man is willing to hug every line of my body, every wrinkle, every catty of meat, and even the acne on my face. Since we got married 1 1 years ago, he kept reminding me how beautiful I am. 」
She admitted that when she married her husband, she felt a little "uneasy", but the only source of anxiety was that she had a "not bad" six-pack abdominal husband? Is it because she is not thin enough to deserve him?
Although the photos were posted on the Internet and drowned by messages and messages, Jenna was also questioned by many people: "Why do you have such a handsome husband? But now she chooses to face it calmly and bravely says, "Yes, my thighs are seamless, my arms are thick and my ass is not small, but my husband chose me for reasons far exceeding these external conditions. I am lucky to choose him who can accept me like this! The response full of positive energy has touched tens of thousands of netizens.
However, Jenna was not so brave and honest from the beginning. In the past life, she also faced a long struggle, struggling to learn to "love herself". Because of two consecutive miscarriages in the past, she lost confidence in herself: "As a woman, I think our biggest worry is never enough, especially in the face of two broken bodies. It really took me a long time to accept my body again. 」
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When she and her husband walk side by side on the beach in swimsuits, the casual eyes of passers-by often make her mind flash: "Why can you walk with such a man?" I am so fat, he deserves a better woman. So she decided to write down these thoughts that people may not have said, but they are thinking in their minds.
In order to help Jenna rebuild her broken self-confidence, her husband Drew can be said to be the greatest contributor. Even if she doesn't take a shower for a few days, or wears shabby high school uniform pants, in Drew's eyes, she can see her own value and beauty. "I know that it is unhealthy to rely on others to gain self-confidence, so I developed my own career, let myself learn to let go first and shift my focus to others. 」
What Jenna and Drew often do now is to exercise together. They will take yoga classes or run marathons together. Even though every photo Drew took made her want to delete it immediately, Mr. Six Pieces said, "I just want to capture every beautiful moment of you. 」
Body shape is not a criterion to judge a person, let alone whether a person can get happiness. Jenna hopes to encourage all girls: "I have received many messages from girls telling me that they feel insecure because they are married to a good-looking man, but the small theater in our mind is often not real, and each of you deserves to be loved like me." I hope you can believe your unique beauty and strength through this conversation. 」
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