Instinct refers to the natural ability of animals to protect themselves and their own race. Sexual behavior is the main way to preserve race. Perception, education and civilization can completely control immoral sexual behavior and sexual impulse, which mostly depends on the activity of gonads, which refer to testicles and ovaries. The gonads can produce certain chemicals. This chemical substance is constantly absorbed by the blood during the whole body circulation, which determines the development of the whole sexual organ and the development of individual sexual characteristics, psychology and function.
Sexual arousal needs to be induced. Smell is one of the reasons, but contact with the opposite sex, specific posture, and even actions similar to sexual intercourse may also be the reasons.
Sexual impulse is the desire and impulse to sexual behavior under the joint action of sex hormones and internal and external environmental stimuli. It is often accompanied by congestion of reproductive organs and psychological excitement, which is a comprehensive physiological and psychological response.
Specifically, if teenagers are stimulated by internal and external environment, such as whispering, the opposite sex appreciating the body, touching and imagining, etc., they will have nerve impulses, which will spread to the relevant centers of the brain, form sexual excitement, and act on the reproductive organs through the nervous system, leading to changes. Male orgasm is characterized by scrotal contraction, penile erection and ejaculation; Women show congestion and swelling of clitoris and vaginal wall, and increased mucus secretion. At the same time of these changes, psychology will also produce excitement and pleasure.
Sexual impulse is produced with the development of physiology, the maturity of sexual function and the emergence of sexual consciousness. Men and women will have sexual impulses from puberty, but for different reasons. Male sexual impulses are easily caused by visual stimuli, such as female images, or nude works of art and pictures; Although women's sexual impulses can also be aroused by various visual images with "sex" color, their sexual impulses are more easily caused by tactile and auditory stimuli.
As mentioned above, sexual impulse is the result of teenagers' physical and mental development and a normal physiological and psychological phenomenon. However, this does not mean that you can satisfy your sexual impulses at will. Because sex is both personal and social, as well as moral and legal. In other words, personal sexual behavior is also subject to many constraints. To develop to a certain age, there are suitable objects and certain conditions.
Therefore, teenagers must learn to control their behavior with reason. First of all, we should cultivate good living habits and physically restrain sexual impulses. For example, develop strict work and rest habits and get up on time every day; Don't think about it after going to bed, go to sleep as soon as possible; Pay attention to the cleanliness of external genitalia, and avoid unclean things to stimulate reproductive organs; Underwear should be loose, sleeping position should be relaxed, and prone position should not be adopted, so as to avoid external genitalia being oppressed and rubbed and impulsive.
In addition, it is very important for every teenager to set goals in life and struggle. Practice has proved that a person with ideals and goals is less disturbed by his own desires and the outside world, and will focus on what he is interested in, so that his excitement will always focus on his study and work, and it is easier to restrain his inner impulses.
In daily life, you can communicate widely with the opposite sex, eliminate the mystery and curiosity about the opposite sex, and participate in group activities and physical exercise more, so that you will feel very comfortable and calm inside. Through this conscious "desensitization" training, the number of sexual impulses can be reduced.